
I
am hetero, but I often fantasize that I have anal
sex with a boy from my school. When I masturbate
I also often insert a finger in my anus. Is this normal? Does it mean
that I am gay?
The anus
is very sensitive. So it is to be expected that you get excited
when you stimulate your anus during masturbation. From stimulating your
own anus it’s only a small step to fantasizing
about anal sex. For many people anal sex is associated with gays. Maybe
this applies also to you. That would explain why you fantasize about
anal sex with a boy while you consider yourself heterosexual.
But you should realise that it’s normally hard to draw any conclusions
about your sexual preference from fantasy alone. So don’t jump to conclusions.
You are gay when you are attracted to guys, fall in love with them and
prefer a relationship with a guy to a relationship with a girl. If you
feel attracted to both guys and girls it's also possible that you are
bisexual. Take your time to get to know
yourself.
If you ever have anal sex with a guy do it safely,
using a condom
made for anal sex.