I like girls, but sometimes fantasize about guys. I’m 15 now, will this change when I get older? I would prefer to be hetero.

Some homosexuals are aware of their sexual preference very early in life, others find out when they are past 18. There also guys who have homosexual experiences in their teens, but consider themselves to be heterosexual when they get older. What your sexual preference will be is hard to tell. You have to wait and see how this develops. Don’t try to label your sexual feelings too quickly. If you have negative thoughts about homosexuality you should try to get rid of those, otherwise it’s hard to be honest towards yourself. You’ll be inclined to suppress homosexual feelings when they arise, preventing self knowledge.