I’m a lesbian and want to tell my parents, but I don’t know how. Can you help me?

One way is to tell it directly, being clear and not beating around the bush. So don’t say: “I have something important to tell you: I think I am lesbian.” It’s better to say: “I am lesbian,” avoiding any discussion about the facts. But it’s also possible to let them know as you go along, talking about homosexuality regularly and letting books and leaflets on the subject lie around. This way you can test the waters and see how they feel about it. Your parents will start to suspect and possibly get used to the idea you are lesbian, making it less of a surprise when you finally tell them. Make sure you have some good (homosexual) friends before you tell others about your homosexuality. They will be able tol support you when your parent’s reaction is cold. Be mentally prepared for rejection. You should also bear in mind that they might need time to adjust. Give them time to get used to the idea and change their daydreams of your future.