It
is safe sex: you
don’t have to be afraid you’ll get a STD.
But that doesn’t mean there are no risks involved. It can have a (very) negative
influence on your life.
Some people who start experimenting with cybersex
get addicted. They spend hours every day and are not able to control this habit:
it becomes compulsory.
When
you are in a relationship and you tell your partner about the adventures on internet
or your partner finds out, it may be felt as a real-life affair. Your partner
may feel betrayed, hurt and /or angry.
When
you get used to the short and exciting sexual encounters of internet real-life
contacts may seem more difficult. On internet contacts are casual: you leave when
you don’t enjoy it anymore. But real intimacy often takes time and hard work.
When
you spend a lot of time on cybersex you may become isolated,
not going out and meeting (new) people. It may stand in the way of getting on
with your life.