Many girls are a little hesitant to let their boyfriend go down on them, even though they would like to try it. What to do about it?
If you re afraid your vulva doesn’t look normal, make an inquiry into the subject. Look at pictures of vulva’s and discover the enormous variety. Then you’ll know there is no ‘normal’ appearance: no two vulva’s are the same.
If you’re afraid your vulva is dirty, shower beforehand. Then you know you’re clean.
If you are afraid it will take you too long to come, forget about orgasm and just enjoy the feeling of his tongue on your lips and clitoris. Don’t spoil the experience by being too focused on orgasm.
Once you start, try to relax. Tell or show your lover what feels good and what doesn’t. For most guys your active participation is a turn-on.