I met a girl at the disco. But when we wanted to make love I did not get a hard on. How come?

Did you have too much to drink? Were you tired? Did you feel completely comfortable with her? Did you long for sex or did she take the initiative while you were not ready to make love? There are many reasons why guys don’t get a hard on when they want to. You have to explore possible causes. If you meet a girl and push away certain feelings, you dick may be more honest than you are. Your penis will for instance protest if you are not ready to make love but proceed anyway, or if you don’t feel secure or don’t like the environment but are unable to say “no.” Every guy has to find out what his prerequisites are for good sex. You’ll have to fulfil these first before you body responds the way you would like to.