Fingering means pleasuring a girl by stroking her vulva with your fingers. If she does this herself it’s called masturbation.

You should never let someone finger you if you are not ready for such intimacies. You’ll enjoy it more if you long for it yourself. So say “no” if someone wants to touch you between your legs but for you it’s not the right person and/or the right time.

Learning how to do it
Body language
General technique
Special techniques
Using a vibrator
Getting in the mood
Playing with excitement
Vaginal juice
Rhythm
Tips

Must I insert my fingers in the opening when I finger a girl?
When I finger my girlfriend I never know if she comes or not.
How do I know where her clitoris is when I finger my girlfriend?

See also: stimulating the G-spot