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What’s a good position when you do it for the first time?

Research among 1000 girls and guys showed that about 70% used the missionary position the first time they had intercourse. Not surprisingly, because this is one of the easiest and most well known positions. But there are also girls who like to be on top, because they prefer to have control. If you do it in the missionary position you can put a flat pillow underneath her bottom. With her pelvis tilted upwards it is easier for her to relax the muscles around her vagina and it increases the chance that her clitoris is stimulated. When you have sex for the first time don’t start with intercourse right away. First try to excite your lover by kissing and caressing her body and stimulating her clitoris with your hand or mouth. Realise that for most girls intercourse is not the most exciting part of sex. So make sure she is satisfied before you enter her vagina with your penis. Entrance might be easier if you use a water based lubricant.

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