When unaroused the G-spot is difficult to feel. During arousal the spongy tissue swells and hardens. So if you want to find your G-spot wait till you are excited.
·        It’s difficult for a girl to stimulate the G-spot herself, because it’s located in the front wall, so you have to twist your wrist. It’s becomes easier with a G-spot vibrator or dildo, which has a curve.
·        If you want to stimulate the G-spot of your girlfriend, first get her excited by kissing, fingering or eating her out. Then insert one or two fingers. When she is on her stomach, your hand palm is down. If she lies on her back, your hand palm is up; in order to exert pressure upwards, toward her belly, you can lay the other hand on her stomach.
·        The G-spot responds to pressure, rather than touch. So when you insert your fingers you have to bend them, around and behind the pubic bone. If she is on her back, pull upwards, as if you’re trying to lift her off the bed. If she is on her stomach you have to push your fingers downwards. Move with a certain rhythm. You can move your fingers in circles, thrust them in and out or rock your fingers forwards and back, but in all these cases you have to put pressure on the G-spot.