I have had a relationship for two years. Recently I found out my boyfriend is having an affair with someone I know. It hurts, but I don’t want to break up. What should I do?

Every woman has to determine herself what behaviour is acceptable and what’s not. It’s all about setting limits. But whatever you decide, you should first talk to him about it. You have to make sure he is really having an affair. If that’s the case you should think it through. The price you pay for continuing a relationship with someone who is not committed to you and cannot be trusted may well be too high. It can easily affect your self confidence. No guy is worth undermining your self respect. So if you suspect it will eat you up you better break up right away, however painful this will be.