You’re homosexual if you feel sexually attracted to and want a relationship with someone of the same sex.
Sexual preference is not a choice. It’s rather something you discover about yourself. Some discover this during childhood, while others find out much later. There are even people who first marry and have children before they discover or admit that they don’t fancy people of the opposite sex.
It’s not always easy to know your sexual preference. Sexual fantasies or a single sexual experience don’t tell the whole story. A girl can fantasize about sex with her best friend, but turn out to be heterosexual later on. Or a guy can make love to girls but discover only later that he only falls in love with guys. Most people need time to get to know themselves in this area.
Many gays and lesbians keep their sexual preference secret, fearing rejection. That’s why many teens with homosexual feelings live with the idea they are the only ones who are “different,” while it concerns an estimated 5-10% of the population. It normally takes some time to come into contact with other homosexuals.

Where can I meet other homosexuals?
I don’t want to be a homosexual.
My girlfriend and I masturbate each other. Does that mean we are lesbians?
I’m gay, but I am also a Christian. Fellow Christians say I should abstain from sex. I’m very confused.