How do you massage the prostate?
Start this experiment once you are already excited, when the prostate is more sensitive. Ask your lover to insert a finger, pointing it towards your belly. She (he) can feel the prostate through the front wall of your rectum, about 2 inches above your anal passage.
There are various ways to stimulate it: rhythmically massaging it in an in and out motion. Another possibility is exerting firm pressure, rather than stroking it. At first you may get the feeling you have to pee, but this subsides quickly.
If you are alone, lie down on your back, with your knees bent. You can place your feet on the bed or place your upper legs against your torso.
Make sure the muscles around your anus are relaxed. Lubricate your index finger with saliva or oil and let it gently slip into your rectum. Bent your finger forwards, towards your belly. This can also be done with a G-spot dildo
Don’t be disappointed if you feel nothing special. Some find stimulation of the prostate very exciting, but others feel nothing special.