There has been discussion whether sex addiction exists or not. But however you call it, it’s clear that there are people whose sexual behaviour is compulsive. They are preoccupied with sex and feel powerless and out of control. This pattern of spending more time on sex than the person wants can have very negative consequences: destroyed relationships, quitting school, job loss, arrests, financial troubles, health problems because of STD’s, low self-esteem and shame.
Like any other addiction it can be a way to escape loneliness and eliminate stress. The person tries to get rid of negative feelings by having sex, but every time it’s a disappointment because there is no real satisfaction. The sex addict tries to find something in a sexual encounter or in other sexual activities that cannot be found there. Afterwards the person may feel alienation.
Sex addiction is not about how often you masturbate (as many girls and guys in their teens assume) or have sex. The real problem is the compulsion.
Consider seeking help if you feel driven and controlled in your sex life, not being free to make your own choices, causing you distress. It’s very difficult to overcome an addiction by yourself.