With simultaneous orgasm you and your lover come at the same time. It’s also called a stereo orgasm.
In movies in which there is a lovemaking session it happens all the time . They kiss; undress, start intercourse and both come within a few minutes. Not very realistic, because two thirds of the girls don’t come during intercourse, even if the guys technique is perfect.
A more realistic way to have a stereo orgasm is in position 69, during mutual oral sex. But most people find it difficult to stimulate their partner and concentrate on their own feelings at the same time. Simultaneous orgasm is possible, but difficult to accomplish.
Don’t believe the myth that simultaneous orgasm is ‘normal’, because such an idea only leads to frustration. Most couples take turns coming, being free to focus both on their own feelings and the other person’s pleasure.
Usually it’s easiest if the girl comes first. Girls often stay in a sexual mood after their orgasm and don’t mind continuing lovemaking. They might even come a second or a third time. Guys often loose their libido after the big O. It can then be quite a job for him to continue. A common pattern is having the girl come to orgasm first using fingers or a tongue or through her own activity. After she is satisfied she can pleasure the guy, saving intercourse for the end.

I heard coming simultaneously is more intimate. But how can we achieve this?