Some tips:
Select music both you and your lover enjoy, which is conductive to dance.
Wear different layers of clothing, otherwise you’ll be naked too soon. What you are wearing underneath should of course be kind of naughty.
Put on clothes that are easy to remove.
Don’t only take into account your lover’s taste, but wear clothing in which you feel attractive and sexy.
Practise in front of a mirror, pretending your lover is looking at you: move suggestively and find out which movements are evocative. While you dance you may run your hands along the contours of your body to accentuate and tease.
Keep eye contact with your partner while you dance. If you look away look at the floor and then raise your eyes again.
Create an alter ego, shedding your inhibitions and stepping into a more daring persona.