Wanting to have sex but your (girl)friend lives too far away? Telephone sex might me a nice alternative. It’s also a good way to get rid of shyness and to get to know your lover’s sexual preferences, sharing intimacies about what gets you excited.
One way to do it is to masturbate while talking dirty.
The subjects you talk about can vary. You can describe how you do a striptease, how you give oral sex or you can share a sexual fantasy.
The trick is both getting equally excited, making sure one doesn’t come to orgasm while the other is just getting into the mood.

How to make it more fun?