I have a relationship for two years. Fantasizing about peeing on my lover gets very excited. I would like to try it in real life. But how do I ask? I am afraid he’ll think I’m weird.

Research has shown that two thirds of the people pee while in the shower. You could ask him to take a shower with you, tell him about this research and ask him if he ever does this. If he reacts averse right away you know it’s not his thing. But if he reacts positively or curious, you may tell him you love the feel of it. If he is still interested you may talk about your fantasy. But you can also pee while you hold his hand in the stream. If he withdraws his hand you know you don’t have a chance. But if he seems to enjoy it you can take it further, step by step. So introduce the subject slowly, exploring how he feels about it, only revealing your fantasy if you think he’ll react neutral or positively.