I bought a vibrator to masturbate. I would like to use it with my girlfriend, but don’t know how she will react. Should I talk about it?

It’s always a little bit scary to introduce something new during lovemaking. Especially if you don’t know how your lover feels about the toy or the activity. But I would give it a try: fortune favours the bold. Once girls learn the pleasures of a vibrator they are normally enthusiastic. There’s even a good chance she uses one when she masturbates and is too shy to introduce it herself during lovemaking. If you fear a negative reaction you might also start a general conversation about sex toys or vibrators to see what she thinks about it. If she rejects the whole idea or doesn’t want to talk about it, let it rest for a while and try it again later.