A
voyeur is someone who gets excited
by observing an unexpected stranger who is undressing, naked or engaging
in sexual activity.
Looking
and being looked at is an important part of anyone’s sexuality. But
normally this involves a consenting adult. You only speak of voyeurism
if it is someone who looks at someone without the other knowing or wanting
it. The risk of being caught is part of the thrill.
Although
there are female voyeurs, most of them are guys. A male voyeur is also
called a ‘peeping Tom.’
For
some people voyeurism is their only sexual outlet. But most voyeurs
have normal sexual relationships. They only satisfy their voyeurism
once in a while, looking for unshaded windows
through which to glimpse at someone disrobing or at a couple having
intercourse.
See
also: exhibitionism